Ben affleck and jennifer garner keep it classy and vacation together for the kids

Celebrity divorces, like any divorces obvs, can be super messy business. But Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner seem to be tracking for the Chris Martin-Gwyneth Paltrow uber-pleasant route to Splitsville rather than the one that would leave them throwing down in the public sphere.

And they have three very good reasons for doing so: Violet (9), Seraphina (6), and Samuel (3).

Which is exactly why they’re taking a vacation together right now — the kiddos.

Per US Weekly, the couple formerly known as Bennifer 2.0 took their babies down to the Bahamas, which is their go-to vacay spot with the little ones, it seems.

How sweet is that?! We suddenly feel a gush of feels coming on because way to be, guys.

Which is a nice change of pace from all the epic sads we were experiencing when Ben and Jen first announced they were calling it off after 10 years of marriage.

“After much thought and careful consideration, we have made the difficult decision to divorce,” the pair told People on Monday (June 30). “We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children whose privacy we ask to be respected during this difficult time. This will be our only comment on this private, family matter. Thank you for understanding.”

Clearly, they’re making good on their intent to make it a civil disunion for the sake of the wee ones. Which … A+.